Family try their best. They love unconditionally. They also judge unconditionally. Each new member is an extension of the family unit - a unit they built and want to uphold. While trying to be apart of a unit, each person can only be responsible for themselves.

I am only I. I am the only one who has to take care of me. I am the only one who can take care of me.

As we grow we get to make our own families. We find those that match our energy, fall in love, or even bring life into the world. Somewhere along the way I found my Platonic Soulmate who matched me with her own reliance. We grew and learned how to be self reliant together.